personality

Elea thinks a lot about herself, her ideas and plans, and also about the world itself, losing herself in reveries, speculations, or mind games without a concrete goal. However, she keeps her deep feelings and rich thoughts mainly to herself and shares them only with a few special people close to her. She does not feel the need for constant contact. When making new acquaintances, she seems energetic and pushy, for many reasons. However, even though they do not show as much of their inner world to the outside world, there is still a lot going on inside them.

She always believes in the good in other people, which she tries to bring out with her open  nature. Elea is also receptive to new or unusual ideas and views. In general, she has a strong creativity, deals with ideas or philosophical considerations, has a vivid imagination and strong imagination. They do not shy away from complex theories and things, and are even very interested in the fantastic and complex. Sometimes they may have exaggeratedly romantic, rapturous, or idealized ideas about the world or other people that do not quite match reality. As for her own person, she is sensitive and modest, often has self-doubt, and takes criticism very much to heart.
It is with great difficulty that she manages to resist a possible reward or interesting activity when she should actually be doing something different but unloved. For this reason, she likes to jump from one thing to another, is restless and cannot easily concentrate on longer-term goals. At work she doesn't take things too seriously and likes to do this and that at the same time - the main thing is that the result fits.

A special talent of hers is to understand the motivations, worries and needs of other people and to sympathize with them.
In dealing with others, they are very emotional, but also careful and considerate of the feelings of their fellow cat beings. Criticism is something they take to heart, and they also don't handle negative emotions or setbacks very well, which is why they are nervous and unbalanced from time to time. In stressful situations she is quickly overstressed and then often feels worry or anxiety.  Negative emotions or setbacks cause her headaches, which is why she can become nervous, restless, unbalanced or even melancholic in such a case.  This can also make it difficult for them to assert their own interests against others.

Elea is rarely willing to take risks, but likes to try new things. She does not always act sensibly, but sometimes simply lets five be straight and things come to her. Because of her reticence and her often indecisive, casual attitude and romanticized ideas, it can be difficult for her to turn her plans into reality. Especially if she is also unsure about it. In general, she considers herself individualistic and likes to bring creativity and originality to her environment, her work, and her everyday life, which makes her not only unique and original, but also highly appreciated by other people.

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[ Open-minded ]
People who are “open to experience” tend to be intellectually curious, creative and imaginative. Personality researchers have shown that such people literally see the world differently. And this is no different for Elea . The way she sees the world around her, and inside her, can never be really understood. Especially, since she herself is indifferent of the richness of fantasy and life going on in her mind. She is just over-curious in many things and would never laugh down even the weirdest ideas, theories or arguments. Neither does she only stay with one opinion which can fly all across over time.

[ Individualist ]
Elea is and never will be an ordinary person with ordinary likes and dislikes. She likes to think and do things in her own way, rather than imitating other people. Wanna wear a stupid hat? Go for it.

Thanks to the openness of her aunt and her own individualism Elea is able to fully develop into the direction she wants to go - or not. She appreciates the freedom of character and creativity her family gives her. And while it can be a hard way to find yourself the result couldn't be more stunning. Right?

[ Creative ]
"Being creative doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a musician, writer, or artist. Creativity is the ability to think of new and novel ideas, —it’s critical thinking. It’s a muscle, and the more you work on it, the better you will be. Creativity also gives you the ability to see things from different perspectives." - Gary Ware

[ Easy-going ]
If you describe Elea as easy-going, you nail it. She is not easily annoyed, worried, or upset, and this can be a good quality. At all times you will meet her this uncomplicated way - unless she is having a bad time.

[ Playful ]
While not really talented in telling jokes or say funny things Elea copes this with her light way to interact with others. It can  come off as rash sometimes but she tries in a true way to playfully relax you with her nature. Is it playfully bantering you or tickle you when you make a sad face.

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[ Warm-hearted]

She is friendly and affectionate, loving, kind, having or showing sympathy, affection, kindness, cordiality. Every emotional moment will melt her heart or she warms others with her gentle affection.

 

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[ Peace loving ]

Elea cannot stand fights, arguments or discussions. A reason for this is her own lack of phrasing and forming arguments to describe her feelings or thoughts on something. Weighting the same, Elea can feel tension in the atmosphere due to her high intuition. And she hates tension. Thus, she is graving for peaceful surroundings and conversations.

[ Empathic ]
Coming from her warm-hearted soul Elea is able to deeply connect with the feelings of other individuals, resulting in a great pool of understanding and sharing of these. Since this is a blessing and a curse the molly will understand this trait as a neutral one. The want to help others, to get into their skin can be supportive and also destuctive - for both sides. And as introvert it can be hard to shield away emotions from others to sort her own.

 

[ Unconventional ]

 

Elea doesn't bound herself with rules or standards, or the ONE way to act right. She does and acts the way her morals tell her are right.

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[ Profoundly emotional ]

Deep emotional feelings and thoughts belong to you alone. It is difficult to describe them, to understand them and sometimes to come to terms with them. No one will ever know how each of us feels deep in our hearts, but the main thing is that they are there. Because even if you can't go into further detail here for Elea, I think most of you know exactly what I'm talking about. It is a part of themselves and this trait develops many parts of their personality.

[ Extroverted Introvert, contemplative ]
Elea shows at a young age that she seems more extroverted than introverted. But there is more to it than wanting to be cheeky. Extroverted introverts disguise their inner world, feelings and thoughts through outgoing nature.

 

[ Easily offended ]
When Elea has engaged in offensive behavior, she sometimes tends to overcompensate with moral rectitude to assuage her guilt and convince everyone else (and herself) that she is not really a "bad" person. No body likes their flaws and faults, their negative quirks. And with this comes a defensive mechanism that activates when said manners come to play.

[ Naive ]
Kittens always come with this; simple naive trust. It’s natural and unaffected, it’s innocence. Elea, no matter how confident they give themselves, is showing a lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment since she is having little knowledge or experience of how life works.

[ Easily burned & stressed out ]
Often you put your family before yourself, then your friends. And even when you yourself start to break down from all the stress, others are still more important than you. A feeling Elea will have early on, but will only understand in adulthood. Self-care must be learned and also to say no sometimes. As Elea charges herself more and more mental turmoil, be it emotional support or spending time together, the breakthrough comes sooner or later. This often reflects in sleep too. Especially if she is stressed out she appears to be always tired. The she-cat appears to search something deep inside but cannot manage to find it.

[ Insecure ]
One evil shadow that hangs over Elea is constant insecurity. Not only in the emotional but also the material way. It is highly ironic that the things that make her tick are also the ones that weigh her down the most mentally; insecurity. She herself feels as if she is walking on shaky ground that could cave in under her at any moment. Remember that silly hat I mentioned? Yes, right here it is being questioned now. The easy-going kind? What if it's too gullible. Nothing throws Elea off more than her insecurities, her fears.

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[ Short term memory ]

Notwithstanding that she reminds things a lot she also forgets a lot. The molly forgets conversations, sometimes also important situations. Either it takes a huge amount of time to remember this or her small stubborn mind refuses to believe that she was part of a certain action - which she simply cannot remember. It also happens that her memory turns out wrong, she is super sure person A was part of a group when they never showed up. Her stressed-out condition on the other hand might be the main fault for this trait.